When the Phone Rules All (video)

When the Phone Rules All (video)

This video is funny… only because it’s true. I’m watching this and thinking of Sherry Turkle’s observation that adults are much more susceptible to technology’s lure than children today:

“I believe that there are some places that, in the car, it’s reasonable to say, ‘Hey, I’m going back to my friends. I want to tell them I’m coming.’ Every place you are with your children, you can’t say is a sacred space. That doesn’t fly. But I think that, for families as they grow up, I do feel strongly about this because really this dinner table thing has been such a theme in my research, such a theme as teenagers look back on their lives and what they miss. It’s teenagers who say, ‘My parents text at the dinner table.’

There’s a story in my book: This young man has a mother who is a gourmet cook. So her pleasure is in making these long, long, many-course meals and that’s how she shows her love for her family. And she’s married to a kind of master of the universe, kind of Wall Street-type guy, and he’s on his BlackBerry all through dinner. And their son starts to try to negotiate with the mother: Could she prepare shorter meals so that then maybe the father would put away the BlackBerry? But he’s not going to do it if it’s a four-course meal. But maybe he would do it if it was basically just soup and salad, or maybe he would do it if it was just salad and a grilled steak. You know, you see a teenager trying to negotiate some way to get this BlackBerry out of the dinner table, and it’s touching.”

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